Flow experience is a concept defined by Csikszentmihalyi to describe those moments when you are completely and totally absorbed in an activity. As such, everything else is forgotten. You have total concentration and nothing else matters. You are no longer aware of what is going on around you. The rest of the world is forgotten.
When you are in a flow experience, your focus is so complete that you forget all about sleeping and eating. You are not even aware of yourself; you are immersed in the activity you are engaged in.
Furthermore, since you are so engrossed in the activity, your experience of time changes. You are so absorbed that the past and future are forgotten. Time absolutely flies by, although you are not aware of this at the time. It is only when you come out of the activity that you notice how much time has passed.
You can have a flow experience with any activity that is mindful and requires you to actively participate in it. As such, good conversation, reading a novel, playing sport, working on your hobby, letter writing, gardening, even cleaning the house are examples where you can experience flow. Passive activities such as watching television and sport are not conducive to a flow experience. You will probably know when you have had a flow experience as you will get that feel-good buzz afterwards of having engaged in something engrossing.
Whilst you are engaged in your activity, you will feel completely in control and are not worried about success or failure. The activity feels effortless but engaging. To the objective observer the activity may look risky and demanding (for example, surfing), but not to you, the participant.
We all possess the ability to engage in flow experiences and the more we have, the happier we are.
Csikszentmihalyi stipulates three conditions that must be met in order to have a flow experience:
1 Your chosen activity should have a clearly defined set of goals. This will help you focus your energy and give you direction.
2 You want a good balance between your perceived skills and perceived challenges. The important point here is ‘perceived’ rather than actual. It is a mind-state. If you believe your skills far surpass the challenge, you will become bored as it will be too easy for you. Whereas, if you perceive the challenge as being too hard for you, you will become frustrated.
3 Feedback is essential. It will enable you to modify your actions if necessary, to keep you in the flow. The feedback can be negative as well as positive. It can enable you to move on and progress (providing you have the skills to do so).
Flow can occur with any activity, provided it is mindful. What is important is how the activity is carried out. Take a look at the following tips to help you towards engaging in regular flow experiences.